Stop Being Shy With Guys - Learn To Open Up To Him Or You'll Miss Your Chance
Do you wish you could figure out how to stop being shy with guys? Do you find yourself blushing and becoming tongue-tied every time a guy you like talks to you? Are you worried that your shyness is making it impossible for you to get a boyfriend? Not all women can be confident around men all of the time. In fact, most of us are sometimes shy or insecure and so we let great guys slip through our fingers without giving them an opportunity to know us at all. But you can learn to stop being shy with guys you like. Don't allow yourself to miss out on a great guy. Read on to find out how.
The first thing that you need to do is ask yourself what the source of your shyness is. You may be shy because you don't feel like you are as pretty as the women guys are always talking about. Or there may be something about your appearance that you see as a flaw that makes you insecure. Sure, men do seem to be more preoccupied with personal appearance when it comes to dating than women are. But the good news is that even though men may talk a lot about wanting a 'hot' girlfriend, they don't want to be with a woman who has nothing else to offer but a great body and/or face.
Guess what all of those girls in the magazines that guys drool over have in common besides thousand dollar wardrobes, tons of make-ups and serious touch-ups? They are confident looking. Even if they are secretly wondering: "Does my butt look huge in these jeans?" - and let's face it, they probably are- they are still exuding self-confidence.
Guys are attracted to self confident woman so if you want to shop being shy with guys, become confident. You can start to do this by thinking about what you love about how you look. Make a written list if it helps. Now, start to think about ways that you can play those things up in how you dress and how you carry yourself.
Even though men have historically been the ones who make the first move when it comes to romance, women are still afraid of being rejected just as much as men are. If you've ever been rejected by a guy that you were interested in then you know how bad it can feel. Some women never get over that feeling and it makes them perpetually shy around other guys that they are attracted to. You can't let one little rejection, no matter how bad it felt at the time, rule your life. Face your fear and get over it! If the guy wasn't interested then he wasn't the right guy for you.
Being positive about yourself is a huge part of overcoming shyness. Instead of thinking about what you think are flaws, focus your thoughts on all of your assets. You can begin to stop being shy with guys when you start to understand that a guy would be lucky to call you his girl.