You still are really in love with your ex but he or she just left you, and that's the reason why you're thinking of a lot of things, sometimes desperately, just to be back with the ex. Yes, you sometimes act desperate, but to correctly inform you, this is not the best way to do the thing. You think of ways like giving the most prized materials and a lot of phone calls every day, but then, these things can also contribute more as to why your ex will be firm with his or her decision to leave you.
Do everything smoothly while beginning with the step of bringing your ex back. You should not rush her or him up to get back with you. Do not show or present a frantic and distressed attitude as if you really, really want to bring back the relationship so bad.
When other people who are not good in handling a break up, they are always anxious and frenzied to rekindle the sweet, old relationship in just a snap of a finger. But this should not be the case when you want to do things in a calm manner. You should give yourself a space and time to think about what just happened to you and your partner's relationship.
In giving yourself the space and time required, you can turn into things which can alleviate your mood and spirits. Enjoy yourself by going out with your friends and have a blast. Do not dwell on the break up so much and lock yourself inside your room and not speak to everyone. Being sad might be your first reaction to the break up that just happened, but giving yourself more time and enjoying things with your friends can be more appealing and another great reason which can support your decisions to be back with the ex.
Turning the attention to your own body can also be a very good diversion. Instead of thinking about the break up, you can make use of that time in exercising and eating healthy. This will aid you become immersed with the fact that you need more time for yourself and less dazed about the whole hoopla of events that are happening. Taking care of your body is the best diversion factor, it can just be an effortless kind of exercise or anything that will make you move and not dwell on a painful experience which has left you heartbroken.
Turn your attention to healthy foods. Eat healthy. Other people might turn to food or alcoholic drink in so much indulgence and will help them become better, but this is not healthy and might be the negative reason why you won't be able to get back with ex. So, do it in a healthy way.
Follow these tips and pieces of advice, then you already have the proven plan on how to have reconciliation with your ex loved-one.